A HOPELESS ROMANTIC ALL MY LIFE

 As far back as I can remember, I have been a hopeless romantic. Growing up, Bollywood movies like Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge (DDLJ), Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham (K3G), Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, and Kal Ho Naa Ho shaped my understanding of love. These films made me believe in the idea of a soulmate, that there is someone destined for everyone. Watching Shah Rukh Khan effortlessly playing these roles turned me into a lifelong fan of his, and this love for romance stayed with me through my teenage years and well now as well.

Romantic comedies became my escape, whether from Bollywood or Hollywood. When I was near the end of school, a new wave of romance entered my life through Korean dramas. The trend of watching K-dramas was so high among my friends. My first-ever K-drama, Boys Over Flowers, came into my life in the form of CDs that my sister bought. I still remember how she watched it for 24 hours straight, and naturally, I joined her.

Boys Over Flowers was more than just a drama; it was an experience. The trend didn’t stop at just watching the dramas; we bought stickers, keyrings, and posters of the actors and showed off with each other.

Over the years, my obsession with love stories has only deepened. Whether it is the chemistry between the leads or heart fluttering moments, romantic movies make me feel good and kind of like an escape from the real life for some time. So I am not ashamed to admit to say that I watch cliche movies as well. And well, the music just adds the perfect amount of goodness in everything. 

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